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Monday, December 29, 2014

20 things all women think while giving a hand job

20 things all women think while giving a hand job
NB This is not a hand job (Picture: Ibrakovic)
Ah the hand job.
In these heady days of pterodactyl porn and avatar girlfriends, ‘manual labour’ can seem pretty tame.
But, whether these are part of your standard sexual smorgasbord or you haven’t given or received one since you were 17 underneath a pile of coats at your best friend’s house party, there’s certain things that cross a lady’s mind when she’s giving one.
And, let’s face it, she must be a lady because this is the good girl’s bj.
1. Well this is retro.

2. Is he disappointed? ‘He’ does look a bit disappointed.
Too bad – if he wanted head we should have gone to bed two episodes of AHS ago.

3. I need longer arms.

4. Wow, my balancing abilities are pretty horrendous.

5. Ok, I’m just going to have to shift on down there.

6. Kind of hard to know where to look now.
Looking at him seems needy/off putting. Staring at it intently seems creepy.
Guess I’ll just glance off nervously to the side.

7. Should have used lube.

8. My wrist is already sore. How does his wrist not get sore?

9. And my other arm’s getting pins and needles.

10. I’m not even going to pretend to be enjoying this. I could essentially be milking a cow.

11. Plus, I’m still worried about grip. How is saying ‘it’s all good’ ever helpful?

12. Seriously, you must have wrists of steel.

13. Oh God, my whole hand is cramping. Can you get RSI from this?

14. Ok, other hand, try to keep up same momentum.

15. Wow, things are happening. That’s always a surprise. Could explain why you think doing exactly the same movement on me for 15 minutes is the pathway to nirvana.

16. Oh God, yet again I haven’t thought this through.

17. Men use socks don’t they? Do we have any clean socks? Possibly not the sexiest option.

18. Let’s face it, this could go anywhere. Yet another argument for condoms.

19. Ha, it’s all on you. Good luck getting that out of your leg hair.

20. My mistake, the bedding’s ruined. Bagsy the dry side.

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

10 Makeup Looks for New Year 2015

New Year’s Eve is all about parties, festivals and trendy makeup looks. Makeup trends for 2015 fall into three camps: natural, classic, and bold. Fortunately, most of the trends are easy to duplicate. Just don’t go overboard. You can look gorgeous with a little effort. Here are 10 looks to try this year.
Makeup Looks for New Year 2015

1. Pastel brows

Pastel brows
Pastel hair extensions in colors chosen to complement clothing were paired with pure pigments in matching hues. The pigments were swiped across eyebrows, giving the models a soft yet edgy look. Although it’s a New Year’s Eve party, try to avoid too bright colors.

2. Bright eyes

Bright eyes
This year, Ralph Lauren is showing a lot of sparkles, and the look doesn’t stop with fabrics and jewelry. Makeup artists used shimmery gold tones just over the lashes and in the corners of the eye. This is one trend that is simple to duplicate.

3. Slept-in eyes

Slept-in eyes
DVF showed a glam look inspired by Brigitte Bardot. First, the models’ eyes were lined in deep, rich black. Next combinations of browns, blacks, and greys smudged together to create a glamorous look. To stay current, avoid sweeping color past the eyelid and into a cat-eye shape.

4. Tiny stenciled tattoos

Tiny stenciled tattoos
This year, Tommy Hilfiger was inspired by 1960s pictures of pretty girls at outdoor music festivals. Make-up artists drew stars, moons, and even tiny constellations on models’ cheeks, arms, and midriffs, adding a British invasion look to the runway. Maybe this idea is not for every woman, but if you want to surprise your partner or friends, then why not give it a try?

5. Glitter

Glitter
Get ready for some glitter. Designers are showing actual glitter, not sparkling shadow, around the eyes. One artist used three dots of glitter on each eye. A small dot rested on the inside crease while larger dots accented the center of the eye both above the upper lashes and below the lower lashes.

6. Deep black eyeliner

Deep black eyeliner
Defined eyes are classically presented this season with deep black, matte eyeliner. The look is perfected with clean, not smudged, lines that extend only slightly beyond the lid and end suddenly. If you’ve never used black eyeliner, be sure to experiment a little now so that you won’t have any problems on New Year’s Eve.

7. Bold lips

Bold lips
Designer Tanya Taylor showed dramatic lips in shocking orange. To complement their lips, the models wore peach on their eyelids and delicate orange along their cheekbones. A little less shocking but equally as bold, Carolina Herrera showed models with deep red lips that dominated the face. For extra boldness, some designers matched bold red lips to the models’ manicures.

8. White eyeliner

White eyeliner
Nanette Lepore highlighted extra-long eyelashes with white eyeliner. This look kept the long lashes from becoming too dramatic. To achieve the look, swipe the liner above the eye, below the eye, and into the inner crease. Finally, slightly wing it outward in two lines that do not meet.

9. Opaque eye shadow

Opaque eye shadow
Leave subtle behind for this look. Designers showed a decidedly cat-eye shape that began with a deep colored liner paired with a bright white liner. To achieve the opaque shadow, begin with loose shadow in a bold color, such a cobalt blue. Apply with a wet brush.

10. The natural look

The natural look
This year Marc Jacobs is showing no makeup at all. There are many celebrities who are not afraid to go out without makeup, so why not? If the thought of going completely natural scares you, try Tory Burch’s approach. Swipe some bronzer on the cheeks and add a natural rosy color to the lips.
 
Whether you are comfortable with the bohemian, beach-swept look of the natural trend or ready to rock glitter and opaque eye shadow, this year is the year to try something new. With such a variety of makeup options, there is surely one that will make you feel pretty and draw glowing comments from friends and admirers. What’s your favorite makeup look for New Year 2015?






Thursday, December 18, 2014

7 Ways to Figure Out What You Really Want in Life

If you want to figure out what you really want in your life, you’ve come to the right place. I’ve got some tips that, hopefully, will help you to find your passion and purpose in life. Many of us live our lives without knowing what we really want. We often do what our parents tell us to do and we often don’t question if those decisions are right for us. That’s why many of us are so miserable and not happy with our lives, especially with our jobs. Finding out what you want to do in life is a difficult task and you can’t do it overnight, but it’s possible, though it may take a lot of time and efforts. Here are a few tips on how to discover what you really want in life. Ways to Figure Out What You Want in Life

1. Let go of the past

Before you start discovering what you want in life, you should let go of your past and have no regrets. You want to live a happy life, but your past may be holding you back. No matter how hard you try, you can’t change your past mistakes. Focus on the present and a little future, and you will move forward in life.

2. Find out what you really need

Figure out what you need in life in order to be happy. Yes, it’s a hard task that may take you lots of time. Think over what are the most significant things to you: your love, family, or financial state. Once you know the answer to your questions, you’ll know what you should do to live a more fulfilled life.

3. Discover what makes you happy

Do you know what things make you feel genuinely happy? Simply take several moments daily and think of the things you like and that make you feel alive and more energized. When you discover what those things are, you will know what you have to do in life. If you get unhappy or anxious just thinking about job, it’s time to reconsider your career goals.

4. Where will you be in 5 years?

Have you ever imagined where you will be in 5 years? It might be difficult to picture yourself in the future, but it will help you to figure out what you really want in life. Think about what goals you want to reach and what skills you want to develop in 5 years. Once you answer to your questions, make a plan to achieve your goals.

5. Pursue a hobby

Another surefire way to figure out what you want in life is to experiment and pursue various hobbies to know what suits you best and what you like. You might find out quite surprising things about you, which will make you reevaluate your priorities and goals.

6. Find out what you don’t like

Discover what things bother you and you’ll know what you don’t have to do in life. I suggest that you make a list of things you hate and this list will certainly help you find out what you need to do to be happier. Maybe you don’t like your current job, or maybe your best friend is not actually your best friend, whatever, start changing your life for the better today. After all, your life is too short to spend it doing things you hate.

7. Ask for advice

If you tried all the tips mentioned above and you still can’t discover what you really want in your life, I recommend you to talk to someone (a parent, a sibling, a friend, or maybe a therapist). Sometimes it’s okay to ask for advice. Your friend can point out certain things that you might have never noticed before, and can help you to figure out your life goals.
I hope these tips helped you to discover your purpose in life and now you know what you want to do in your life. Life is not easy and you should always be ready to tackle new challenges and become more successful. If you have some other tips, please share them with us in the comments section.

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

12 Ways to Get Healthier Hair

Many women wonder why their hair is not thick, healthy and shiny. The answer may be a combination of unexpected things. In an interview with renowned hair stylist Skaught Gibson and owner of Josephine Skaught Hairdressing Salon in Las Vegas, he said, “There are many ways that we are damaging our hair everyday without even knowing.” Here are his tips on getting and maintaining lustrous locks: Ways to Get Healthier Hair

1. Wash only 2-3 times per week

Skaught states, “The first thing that most people are doing wrong is washing too often. Shampoos are great for removing dirt and product from your hair, but they are also removing everything good, like natural oils that the scalp produces to keep hair moisturized and healthy.”

2. Avoid heat

Gibson goes on to say that, “Washing every day leads to using products and blow drying every day, which breaks down the cuticle. If the cuticle is damaged from over-styling, the inner core is exposed which causes dryness, a lack of luster, and static.”

3. Shampoo only on the scalp

Gibson cautions, “Always remember to use shampoo in the scalp area only, and use conditioner through the middle and the ends.” Running shampoo down to the ends on the hair is unnecessary and can dry your locks out too much.

4. Rinse with cool water

“Rinsing your hair with cool water makes a big difference as well. Hot water opens the cuticle, causing it to look rough and dry, while cool water closes the cuticle down causing it to look shiny and smooth,” he advises.

5. Use dry shampoo for a quick pick me up

Skaught recommends, “If you feel like you get too oily too quickly there are some great hair powders and dry shampoos that are perfect for extending your blow-dry and keeping you feeling fresh and clean. We like our cleansers to lather and feel like they’re really doing something. Foaming detergents in shampoos are terrible for our scalp and hair, causing it to dry out and become brittle. Although it would be much better for our hair to be “washed” with one of the new non-foaming, detergent-free cleansers, I think that too many of us will have a hard time making the switch.” Give dry shampoo a try and see how it changes the consistency of your hair.

6. Brush sparingly

Gibson told us, “Over-brushing, especially with cheap brushes can also take its toll. Over-brushing causes too much consistent friction for the hair to handle, resulting in broken hair and split ends.” Brushing can also pull on the hair fibers and lead to weaker strands that are more likely to break off and appear dry and lackluster.

7. Let your hair down

Skaught says, “Ponytails and braids can also be quite damaging. When pulled into these styles too tightly on a daily basis, permanent damage can occur.”

8. Wait until your hair is dry to style

Gibson recommends waiting until the hair is completely dry to style. “Braiding or putting your hair in a ponytail while it’s wet is one of the easiest ways to damage your hair because it’s so much more fragile when it’s wet. It’s best to create these styles on dry hair and keep them as loose as possible,” he says.

9. Go natural

The easiest way to heal your hair is to avoid chemicals and coloring. Here’s what Skaught had to say: “Some of the more obvious ways we are damaging our hair is with chemical services and coloring. Over-processing hair can easily cause it to be brittle and dry instead of luxurious and shiny. If you aren’t trying to cover grey hair it is always best to go with a ‘deposit only’ or semi permanent color, as it is not as harsh and much less damaging.” Here’s what he recommends: “When coloring hair, avoid over-using bleach (most of the time less is more). Using deposit only or semi permanent color instead of permanent color will add conditioning agents and shine instead of taking it away.”

10. Look to your pantry

Gibson says that there are many all-natural ingredients that can work wonders on our hair. “There are all kinds of things hanging out right in our very own kitchens that we can use as different treatments in our hair. Styling products can build up in our hair leaving it dull and dehydrated, and our daily shampoo isn’t always able to extract that on its own. Dairy products like yogurt and sour cream are able to reverse that damage and restore hair to a beautiful and shiny state. The lactic acid in the dairy gently strips away dirt and product while the fat from the milk moisturizes. A sour cream or yogurt mask can be used up to twice a month. Gently massage about 1/2 cup of either one into your hair, let sit for 20 minutes, and rinse with cool water.”

11. Use beer

No, not to drink. Skaught recommends them for your tresses. “Flat beer is great for plumping up tresses and adding volume and shine because of the abundance of yeast. Let beer sit out at room temperature for a few hours to deplete carbonation. Wash hair as normal and use the beer as a conditioner for about 15 minutes, followed by a cool rinse,” he says.

12. Avoid hot tools

The effects of overheating our hair can be extremely damaging. “Cut down the use of hot tools such as blowdryers and flat irons. When you are using these tools set them to lower heat settings and make sure you are using a pre-styling product that has heat protection,” he encourages.
If you’re concerned about your hair health. Go see a professional for an individual consultation. Make sure you are getting a trim or cut regularly to avoid split ends and to keep the hair bouncy and healthy. Do you have any tips you’d like to share that help keep your hair healthy and smooth? Please comment below.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

10 Effective Ways to Be Happier This New Year

Effective Ways to Be Happier This New Year









When the year draws to a close and it’s not been a happy one for you, you may be especially determined to see that the new year is better. Even if you had a decent year, there’s always room for improvement. Fortunately, if joy is what you long for, there are steps you can take to increase your happiness exponentially.

1. Stop worrying

Stop worrying
Worry is the surest way to ruin your happiness. Instead of worrying, take definite steps to solve your problems. When your concerns are out of your control, refuse to worry about them. Remember, worry never solves problems, it simply leaves you drained and unable to meet the challenges that you do face.

2. Get regular exercise

Get regular exercise
Studies have shown that regular exercise helps with depression and anxiety. If you’re not getting regular exercise, start immediately. Take a 20-minute walk three or four days a week, head to the local pool for regular swims or do gentle stretching to increase your flexibility.

3. Lower your expectations

Lower your expectations
Sometimes people become dissatisfied with their lives because they have unrealistic expectations. To increase your happiness, lower your expectations. Instead of trying to write a novel in a month’s time, complete one page each day. You’ll still reach your goal eventually, but you’ll avoid the stress that come with putting undue pressure on yourself.

4. Be happy with what you have

Be happy with what you have
People who are constantly striving to achieve more often forget to enjoy what they have. While it’s fine to have goals, you can make yourself miserable by always wanting more. Instead of obsessing about how and when you can get a new car, for example, appreciate the car you have and the fact that it was paid off long ago, leaving you with more money in your pocket.

5. Be thankful

Be thankful
When everything seems to go wrong in your life, it’s time to look at what’s right. Take time out to give thanks for your warm, cozy home, your loving spouse, your talented kids or the job that puts food on your table. Sometimes all that’s required to bring happiness is a simple change of perspective.

6. Avoid comparisons

Avoid comparisons
Another source of unhappiness is comparing yourself to others. Just because your aunt took a trip to Europe last year doesn’t mean that you have to do the same. Even if your coworker has a designer wardrobe, there’s nothing that says you must have one. Instead of comparing yourself to others, look for and find the unique qualities that you possess and celebrate them.

7. Get enough rest

Get enough rest
If you’ve ever noticed how grumpy you become after a night with little shuteye, you should easily realize how important it is to get enough sleep. While it can be tempting to stay up late, you’ll do yourself a favor by getting to bed at a decent hour and increase the odds of achieving happiness. Getting enough sleep each night is the key to a better health.

8. Practice forgiveness

Practice forgiveness
While the acts of others sometimes defy understanding, the time comes when you must forgive. Even though holding a grudge can be tempting, you only hurt yourself when you hang onto your anger. Free yourself emotionally and forgive those people who’ve hurt you. Life’s too short to bother with grudges.

9. Attend to your needs

Attend to your needs
If you always put the needs of others first, you may find yourself becoming bitter and resentful. Instead of denying yourself what you really need, put yourself first. If painting is important to you, schedule time each day that you can work on your masterpiece. If anyone interrupts you, inform them that whatever they want will have to wait until you’re done.

10. Indulge yourself

Indulge yourself
Denial has become the fashion in recent years. People deny themselves dessert, fail to use vacation time they having coming and sacrifice time with loved ones. Instead of always denying yourself, indulge yourself on occasion instead. The happiness indulgence brings makes it worth breaking your own rules when the situation warrants.

Even though no one can be happy all the time, you certainly can increase your overall satisfaction with life. By taking concrete steps to improve your life, you’ll soon notice that there’s a smile on your face and a spring in your step. Are you ready to have a happy new year?





7 Things You Should Remember When You Can’t Find Your Love

If you can’t find your love, there are several important things you should know. You may not find the perfect man at once, not to mention there are no perfect men at all. Being lonely is not a bad thing, no matter your age. But it doesn’t mean you should sit at home waiting for your love. Go out, meet new people, make new friends and chances are that you will find your man faster than you may think. The following tips can help as well. Things You Should Remember When You Can’t Find Your Love

1. Better to be alone than with the wrong guy

Many women stay in unhealthy relationships because they are afraid of being alone. However, I believe it’s always better being alone than with the wrong man. I don’t know about you, but I can’t spend my time with the person I don’t like. Or worse, spend the rest of my life with a man I don’t love. If you are single now, keep in mind that it’s better to wait than to be sorry. Enjoy your single life to the fullest and stop worrying about the future.

2. You are single for a reason

Many women spend days and nights at work and home in front of their computers or TV, moaning about being so lonely. If you are single, there is definitely a reason for it. Maybe you need to change your work schedule so that you have more free time in the evenings. If you have free time, consider going to the gym, join a club or take a dance class. I don’t recommend online dating, but if you think it’s for you, give it a try!

3. Stop worrying about what others say

If you are single in your 30s, your family members and coworkers might always want to know whether you date someone or no, and when you are going to get married. It’s probably the toughest questions for singles, but it’s important not to worry about what other people think and say about you. It’s your life so don’t let anybody control your relationships.

4. Your love is closer than you think

Sometimes love is closer than we think. You may look for your dream man everywhere, but it may turn out that he lives just around the corner. Maybe it’s your friend, neighbor or coworker. Think of all the relationships with guys and find out if any of them likes you more than just a friend and if you like any of them. One of the things you should remember when you can’t find your love is that he may be closer than you think.

5. Change yourself

While you don’t have to change yourself to suit a man, it’s okay to change some of your traits. Maybe you should become less selfish or angry. Maybe you should learn how to respect men and build a strong relationship. Maybe you need to improve your communication skills. Consider your drawbacks and try to improve them. It will help you to find your love faster.

6. You are afraid of getting close to a man

You may love dating and meeting new guys, but you may be afraid of getting close to a man you like. You may not realize it, but it keeps you from finding your future husband. Opening yourself up to someone isn’t an easy thing, especially if you are a shy person. But sometimes it’s good to take a risk.

7. You can have kids even in your 40s

Many people say that a woman can’t have children after 30s, but it’s a myth. Yes, it’s better to have kids in your 20s when you have a better health, but no one can tell you that you will never have a child if you don’t get married and pregnant in your 25 or at least 28. If you lead a healthy lifestyle – eat healthy and exercise regularly – you have no reason to worry.

If you are single, you shouldn’t feel unhappy. You will definitely find the right guy, just don’t stop your search. There are so many happy single people that enjoy their life because they know that they won’t be alone forever. Do you worry about being single? What do you do to find your love?

Monday, December 15, 2014

7 Amazing Ways Yoga Makes You a Better Person

There are many ways yoga makes you a better person. Moreover, it makes you more beautiful. Believe it or not, but it’s really true. Yoga is a wonderful beauty practice anyone can take part in. It’s a great exercise that helps reduce stress levels, lower blood pressure, ease symptoms of anxiety and depression, and can make you look and feel younger and happier. Here are a few amazing ways yoga makes you a better person. Amazing Ways Yoga Makes You a Better Person

1. It makes you strong

Yoga makes us strong, and, as you know, a strong woman is always beautiful. Yoga tones your whole body, especially your core, arms, butt and thighs. If your self-esteem needs a boost, yoga can really help. Numerous studies have shown that yoga helps understand yourself internally so you become aware of all those potential which lies within you. You may not notice it at first, but in time, you will understand that you know yourself better and you are much stronger than you seem.

2. It makes you calm and collected

When a woman is stressed, she doesn’t look confident and beautiful. Yoga is one of the best ways to keep stress away. Doing yoga daily will make you calm and collected, and will help you stay positive and handle problems better. When you are calm and collected, you are much prettier than when you are stressed, remember it.

3. It makes you humble

Another way yoga makes you a better person is by giving you a great sense of humility. In one word, it makes you humble. When you fail at a pose, you don’t give up, right? You keep practicing until you succeed. This way, you learn how to admit your mistakes and forgive yourself, along with other people. Yoga makes you feel more comfortable with your imperfections.

4. It makes you happier

Even if you are not good at yoga, it can still make you happier. The thing is, yoga stimulates brain-calming GABA, lowers stress, and keeps you positive. Moreover, yoga stimulates serotonin production in your brain. When you feel sad or stressed, find a few minutes to practice yoga and you will see the result. You will be much happier and more positive, and a positive woman is usually a beautiful one, so make sure you always have time for yoga.

5. It gives you a healthy body

While yoga can help you lose weight, it can also give you a healthy body. Yoga improves flexibility, prevents joint pain, and helps the body stay fit, of course, with a healthy eating plan. A worn out body is not beautiful, but a healthy body is. Doing yoga is one of the best ways to make yourself healthy and more beautiful. After all, if you don’t have a healthy body, how can you cope with all life situations and become a better person?

6. Good posture

It’s always lovely to see a lady with a great posture. Good posture makes every woman feel confident and gorgeous and she looks much more beautiful and healthier than a woman slumped over. If you want to improve your posture, yoga is a must. Try some easy yet effective poses such as warrior one, chair, plank, crow, and some others, you will have a better posture in just a few weeks.

7. Perfect skin tone

Yoga improves blood circulation in each area of the body, including your face. This gives you a naturally perfect skin tone and a rosy glow. The movements create a great blood circulation that helps move stagnant lymph fluid along in the body. Try to do a couple of poses and your cheeks will look much rosier, I promise!
If you’ve never done yoga, you should definitely try it today. You will notice so many benefits in your life. You don’t have to do difficult poses, if you are new to yoga. Opt for simpler poses to achieve more beauty and flexibility from head to toe. I try to do yoga every day, even if it’s just for several minutes. Ladies, do you practice yoga? Do you agree that yoga can make any woman look more beautiful?

Friday, December 12, 2014

10 Romantic New Year’s Celebration Ideas for Couples

New Year’s Eve is a time of celebration and anticipation. For couples, it can be a wonderful reminder of another year together and the hope of many more years spent with one another in the future. Skip parties, celebrate the New Year with a romantic date night. You can have much more fun together and ring in the new year with the most important person in your life. Romantic New Year's Celebration Ideas for Couples 

1. Spend a cozy evening together at home

Spend a cozy evening together at home
You might think that this idea is old and boring, but try to think again. If you partner wants to spend this New Year with you, then why not? Turn off the phones and skip the parties. Instead of hanging out with friends, focus on each other and make the celebration all about the two of you. A bottle of champagne and some food to nibble on is really all you need to usher in a whole new year.

2. Escape the hustle and bustle

Escape the hustle and bustle
It’s fun to celebrate with your friends, but what if you could spend a few days together in Hawaii or on a secluded Mexican beach? Sometimes a romantic escape to a warmer climate is just the way to start your year off right. If you are on a tight budget, taking a short trip to the nearest city might be a good option too.

3. Have a midnight picnic

Have a midnight picnic
What can be more romantic than a midnight picnic in winter? Pack up a thermos of hot chocolate and some tasty treats and head to your favorite picnic spot to watch the fireworks at midnight and enjoy some quiet time together. It doesn’t matter if it’s cold out. Just dress warmly and bring a thick blanket to sit on.

4. Burn up all your arguments

Burn up all your arguments
In the minutes before midnight, each person can write down their biggest pet peeves that involve the other person. You don’t have to show them to each other, just make a list of the issues that you tend to fight about. At the stroke of midnight, toss them into the fireplace and watch them burn.

5. Make goals together

Make goals together
Sipping wine and discussing your goals for the future may not sound romantic, but when you’re planning your future, it is. Come up with a common goal and discuss how you can achieve it. Creating common resolutions can be a great way to bring you together.

6. Hold a game night

Hold a game night
Pull out those fun board games that have been languishing in the closet and have a blast playing against each other. Playing games is a good option for those with children, since you can still have a romantic evening at home without a babysitter. Playing board games, especially with kids, isn’t as boring as you think.

7. Spend it in bed

Spend it in bed
As a couple, what better way to usher in the New Year than snuggling up with each other in bed? Getting intimate is a truly romantic way to set the mood for the next 12 months. Spice things up a bit by lighting some candles and putting on some soft music while you shower together and then head for the bed.

8. Pamper each other

Pamper each other
Grab some massage oils and light the fireplace. Spend your evening giving each other massages in front of the crackling fire while listening to your favorite music. It’s a peaceful, delightful way to celebrate a year gone by. Don’t forget to bring out the wine and cheese to really celebrate.

9. Make a feast

Make a feast
Spend the afternoon cooking up a storm or order in. Spread all the food out on your table and enjoy picking at it throughout the night. Aim to include some aphrodisiacs like smoked oysters and pickled onions. You never know when they might come in handy.

10. Watch romantic movies

Watch romantic movies
Or you could watch action movies. The idea here is to spend some quality time together, so rent some flicks or fire up Netflix and curl up on the couch together with your popcorn and wine to enjoy the evening. If you want to set the mood for the coming year, relaxing as a couple is an excellent way to do so.

Ushering in the New Year as a couple can be a lot of fun and very romantic. Plan ahead to make your night wonderful and unforgettable. New Year’s parties are fun, but you can have more fun at home too. How are you going to celebrate New Year 2015?








7 Powerful Ways to Get Over Failure

Every one of us needs ways to get over failure in life. Unfortunately, in societies obsessed with achievement and success, failure seems to be the worst thing that could happen to a person. In fact, failure is commonplace in life and it’s important to learn how to get over it. Don’t let the fear of failure ruin your life, follow these tips on how to overcome your failure and hopefully they will help you.

Powerful Ways to Get Over Failure 

 

 

 

 


 

1. Learn from your mistakes

One of the best ways to get over your failure is to learn from it. Don’t make the same mistake again. Just because you failed once doesn’t mean you will fail again, but you can’t get over failure if you don’t realize your mistakes. Learn the lesson your failure gives you and make sure you move on.

2. Take a breath

Now, I’m absolutely serious. Taking a few deep breaths can help you calm down and think clearly about your situation. Unfortunately, many people never use this tip, but from my personal experience I can say that it really works. Your life doesn’t end with only one failure. Just don’t allow it to destroy your peace. Keep your peace no matter what and try to stay calm in any situation.

3. Choose a new direction

Often failure can be a sign that you are on the wrong track. Maybe you need to move in an absolutely new direction. Don’t think that you can’t change anything in your life, you can. You need to overcome your fear of failure and move your life in the right direction.

4. Occupy your mind

I admit it, I’m a big overthinker and when something bad happens, I overthink it the whole day and night and I can’t stop thinking about it. For me, the most effective way to get over failure is to occupy my mind. I occupy myself with the things I’ve always wanted to do or things that must be done. Occupy your mind and think about the present, not the past. Reading books, painting, volunteering are all good options to try.

5. Pray

If you are alone, your situation may seem worse. However, you are not alone and I’m sure that you have at least one person who can help you overcome your failure. If you don’t have anybody, then pray. The power of faith is enormous. I know many people don’t believe in keeping faith, but my faith has always helped me through the hard times and it has helped me to get over a few large failures in my life. Give it a try before telling that it’s useless.

6. Reflect on how it all went wrong

Every failure is actually another opportunity for growth. Failures and mistakes help make you stronger, always remember about it. But you will never get over your failure if you don’t realize what actually went wrong. Take time to think about that and find out real reasons of your failure.

7. Don’t let others bring you down

I’ve had a lot of disappointments in the last three years. From failed relationships to not getting promotion, I have failed in almost every aspect of my life. However, I will never allow anyone to bring me down or make me feel desperate simply because something went wrong. Never, ever give anyone the power to destroy you and make you feel ‘less than.’ No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes, so embrace yourself because you are a wonderful and smart person that can achieve almost everything in life!
No matter how big your failure was, you shouldn’t dwell on it. You should learn from it and move forward. I know it’s easier said than done, but you can’t change your past and the only thing you can do is to learn from your mistakes and never make them again. How did you get over your failure? Share your tips with us, please. Who knows, maybe you will help someone.

Thursday, December 11, 2014

8 Tips for Dealing with His Female Friend

Learning several tips on how to deal with his female friend can help you reduce feelings of insecurity and jealousy. You can’t forbid your partner from having female friends because he might think you’re controlling his friendships. And this may cause lots of problems. Here are eight tips I follow when dealing with my partner’s female friends. My sweetheart has a few female friends, and even though I know that they are just friends, I try to keep everything under control. Tips for Dealing with His Female Friend

1. Give her a chance

When you meet your boyfriend’s female friend, make sure you act like yourself. Don’t act like a jealous girlfriend and don’t be rude or cold to her as it could build negativity and tension, and make everybody feel uncomfortable. Maybe she is a good person and she might become your best friend, so give her a chance.

2. Become her ally

One of the reasons why you’re so jealous over your partner’s female friend is that you are afraid that he will leave you for her. In this situation, one of the smartest things you can do is to become her ally. Get to know her better in order to calm your fears. Invite her to go shopping together or have dinner with you. Chances are that she will tell you more interesting things about her private life and she might even tell you about her crush

3. Hang out with her

If you don’t want to meet one-on-one with her, you can invite this girl to hang out with you, your boyfriend and other friends. In case she has a boyfriend, you can also invite him. You will see what she acts like when she’s around your boyfriend. Be sure to pay more attention to her body language, it will certainly give it away.

4. The flirty friend

Well, if your boyfriend’s female friend is a flirtatious one, it will be rather difficult to deal with her. She is incessantly texting, calling or e-mailing him. She could call late at night without thinking that it’s late or she could purposely call late at night because she knows you and your man are in bed together. In this case, your man should set the friendship boundaries. Don’t try to do it alone as she could increase her highly annoying man stealing behavior.

5. Calls and texts

Perhaps you become suspicious whenever you see a call or text message from his female friend who you don’t know yet. Before making the worst assumptions, try to ask your partner to tell something about this girl. He should tell you some facts like how they met, the length of time they’ve been good friends, and something about her boyfriend/husband. Moreover, your man should be willing to show you text messages from her.

6. Don’t worry over her

If your partner treats this girl like one of the guys, there is no need to worry over her. Even though she may be incredibly beautiful and have a wonderful personality, keep in mind that your man is committed to you. If you don’t see signs of suspicious behavior, make sure you trust him. When you don’t trust your partner it makes him miserable and often strain the relationship. You don’t want that, do you?

7. Discuss it with your partner

If you feel uncomfortable when your man spends time with his female friend, ask yourself why. Maybe it’s because you’re very jealous or maybe you are insecure about your relationship. Or, maybe you have concrete proof that they have a romantic relationship. If you suspect your man or his female friend, discuss it with him.

8. Ignore

Finally, when it comes to dealing with your partner’s female friend, ignoring may also help. If she is rude to you or she disrespects you, don’t be mean and don’t show her that her words hurt you. Remember, you are not she, you are better, and your sweetheart loves you, not her.
Sometimes it’s hard to deal with your partner’s female friends, but try not to give him ultimatums unless you’re going to break up with him. Perhaps you have a few male friends and there’s nothing wrong with it. Do you have any tips for dealing with his female friends? Share them with us, please.

10 New Christmas Gift Ideas for Your Kids

Finding gifts that your children will love opening on Christmas morning is an easy task thanks to the hundreds of toy commercials that play on repeat during the run up to the holidays. However, choosing a gift that your child won’t become bored of and discard before dinner can be more of a challenge. Here are 10 gift ideas that will keep your kids happy for years. New Christmas Gift Ideas for Your Kids

1. Pillow Pet

Pillow Pet
A Pillow Pet will make the perfect gift for an artistic child. If you want to buy something unique, opt for Pillow Pals. Similar to the hugely popular Pillow Pets, this service prints a copy of your child’s artwork directly onto a pillow to create a wonderful keepsake. Ask your child to design their own Pillow Pal, and then upload their artwork to the website at www.getpillowpals.com.

2. 3D Printer

3D Printer
3D printers were once reserved for scientists and government agencies, but the latest desktop models are available at a much more reasonable price. A 3D printer can print any object you like using blueprints available online. Although they are still an expensive gift for children, you will probably have just as much fun with it yourself.

3. Horsey bicycle

Horsey bicycle
Photo: designboom.com

The horsey bicycle is the perfect gift for every little girl that ever dreamed of getting a pony for Christmas. Designed by Eungi Kim and shortlisted for the 2010 Designboom competition, the horsey bicycle is an attachment that fits onto a regular bike that looks as though the rider is sitting on their very own stallion. It is not available for purchase just yet, but you could always have a go at creating your own.

4. A knitted snowflake sweater

A knitted snowflake sweater
This gift idea is perfect for your newborn baby. If you can knit and you have free time, why not knit a cute sweater for your little one? There are many free knitting patterns online, but I think a knitted snowflake sweater is the most beautiful one. Plus, it’s a great budget-friendly Christmas gift.

5. Literature

Literature
If you want to get your child interested in literature early on, then check out the amazing books available online. All of the literary classics are available in easy-to-read formats complete with charming illustrations for toddlers. Choose from classics such as Pride and Prejudice, Wuthering Heights, and Frankenstein.



5 Things to Stop Telling Yourself

Why do we find it easier to give ourselves negative messages rather than positive? Most of the time, it is because we believe what we are saying. Does that make it true? No! What is often going on is a form of self-hypnosis. If we repeat an idea over and over, we begin to accept it as valid. Whether the idea is negative or positive, we absorb it and it becomes real to our psyche. We get what we focus on. What compels us, then, spend so much of our inner dialogue putting ourselves down instead of building ourselves up!

For one day, track how many negative phrases you say to yourself about yourself. How often do you “hear” one or more of the phrases listed below? If it’s more than once, it’s too often. What do you have to lose by thinking good thoughts about who you are? How you think shapes your world far more than you may have ever imagined. You are entitled to shift gears, to look at yourself without judgment.

Once you have observed your habitual thoughts, try this: Don’t say a single negative word about yourself for a day. No self-criticism whatsoever. If that’s hard, aim for an hour! How do you feel? Write it down, because there will be a difference.
Here are 5 ideas none of us need. They suck away energy. They only have power if we give them our habitual attention. Consider them debris, and kick them to the curb. Replace them, every time, with the words that are added in bold. Things to Stop Telling Yourself

1. I’m not good enough

Just by virtue that you exist, you are a vital and unique part of this life we all share. You are inherently worthy. When the impulse comes to tell yourself twenty times a day that you’re not good enough, say instead, twenty times a day, “I am worthy.”

2. They are better than me, more intelligent, more artistic, more this or that

We can fool ourselves with this one a lot. We see what other people do and feel there’s plenty of evidence we don’t have their talent and skill. But who says we have to be like them? Who’s the judge here? We each have a talent, uniquely our own, and we always know what that is because we love doing it. There isn’t a set of talents or skills we have to fill. We are meant to find our own, and give to that our best self. Say instead: “I love doing (whatever it is) and I’m good at it.”

3. I’m not likable or lovable

This is a big one. It justifies (explains) a lot of things that go wrong for us, or so we think. But it isn’t true. Believing it is actually believing in an illusion, and we repeat it way too often. It is also the hardest idea to shift. There is only one way. Dare to say instead, whether you believe it or not at first, “I love who I am.”

4. I can’t succeed

Our society pushes the idea that success is being first at something, and that it is accompanied by financial reward. That definition is fine as far as it goes, but it’s not the only one. Success in its essence is a feeling of achievement that arises whenever we do something well – it doesn’t matter what that is, small or large – we know in our heart that it matters. Say instead, “I do succeed.”

5. I am powerless

Here is another illusion. In truth, what this means is that we have decided to relinquish our own personal power and give it away, usually to a person or to a situation. We can live years believing that we cannot alter outcomes. We let go of our own sense of self, and let others define us. The self-hypnosis on this one runs deep. But it can be turned around, and fast. Just say instead, “I take back my personal power.”
In the end, thinking positive thoughts about yourself (and deleting the negative ones!) will transform your life for the better. No one else is quite like you. You have an inner light that is meant to shine out into the world.

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Grooming problems you need to fix before wedding

Need to be perfect before you plunge into matrimony? Here is your checklist.

Indian weddings are all about that hard-to-miss sartorial elegance. Splendour and style are synonymous to this mega event in our lives. The suave sophistication, of a western formal suit can do a lot to add to the look of the groom. However, most men have some common problems that need to be looked into before their D-Day. Here is a list you need to get sorted well before your wedding day.

Do you have patchy skin?
Patchy skin can be dealt with with the help of microdermabrasion, chemical peels and also laser. Cosmetologist Dr Rashmi Shetty says, "Depigmenting creams work at different levels of melanin synthesis and can give your skin a radiance and make it look fairer." Consult a dermatologist to know what is right for your skin.

Do you have a snoring problem? Loud disruptive snoring is a social problem that may strain relationships for many men. Laser specialist Dr Gauri Desai says, "Most people don't think of snoring as something to be overly concerned about. But this can be a huge problem. A painless, non-invasive laser treatment which takes merely three sessions of 20 minutes each, can help ease snoring blues completely."

Balding? or thinning hair? Most Indian men begin to bald in patches even before they reach their mid-thirties. This, fortunately, is reversible with hair transplant — a solution that many are opting for. Dr Apoorva Shah, trichologist, says, 'This is the only one solution to deal with the problem of thinning hair and balding." However, trichologists say that you need time for this because your hair has to grow back. Trichologist Dr Sonal Shah says, "There is another technique that is faster and less expensive which covers the scalp. This works when your hair is thinning and the white scalp is beginning to show." Apart from these techniques, there are also the simple DIY tips that if followed regularly can help your hair texture and growth — oiling regularly, using a good quality shampoo and conditioner, getting regular hair spas done etc.

Bulging belly? A beer belly is one of the most common problems. Diet pills, fad diets and miracle medicines should not be resorted to. Clinical nutritionist Dr Pooja Makhija says, "Eat small meals at regular intervals to boost your metabolism. So, effectively, you eat to delete fat in your body." When this simple tip is followed along with the rule of 'no food after 7 or 7.30 pm', you can really lose weight. And exercising every single day for at least 20 to 30 minutes is a must. However, despite all this, if you cannot get rid of fat deposits on your belly, then you can opt for laser. Laser specialist Dr Gauri Desai says that laser can be used to target and burn spot fat.

Excess body hair This can be unsightly. There are temporary methods to deal with this like, waxing, shaving and depilating. But permanent methods like laser hair removal can deal with this problem effectively. Cosmetologist Dr Jamuna Pai says, "Laser when done for a few sessions and used the correct way can lessen hair growth to a large extent. If followed up, then it can really make a difference."

Three bridal hairstyles you can try

When given a new twist, even old, classic hairdos can look very glamourous. Here are some tips to help you get these looks.
There are some hairstyles that are timeless and they can be perfect for weddings. The ever simple and ever evolving buns, the French braids and fishtail braids and such other ways of doing up your hair, will never cease to be in style, so, when after a decade, you take a look at your wedding photographs and videos, it won't make you feel ancient. Buns and braids are typically Indian and we have grown up seeing them on our mothers, aunts and grandmothers. However, when given a new twist, these can look very glamourous. Here are tips to do these classic hairstyles...
Look 1 - Diva for the day



Goes best with: This eternally classic hairdo, is ideal for an off-shoulder wedding gown because it really highlights the neck and shoulder. A lace veil when teamed with this hairdo, works well. Don't wear it with: This hairstyle won't hold well if you are opting to wear a heavy veil of traditional Indian silks, an embroidered duppatta. Plus, it will not even be visible under opaque headwear. Deck it up: Use a single monotone floral accessory on one side

HOW TO GET THIS LOOK: Begin by dividing the hair into sections. Leave the front sections and start making loose plaits with the sections at the back. Now make one large bun at the back of your head, with the three loose plaits that you had made, and also incorporate the front sections of hair. You need to twist these as you make them into the bun. Use pins to hold the bun in place wherever required. Your hair needs to be squeaky clean and well conditioned to get this look. If you have poker straight hair then make sure that you curl them before your begin.


Look 2 : The princess of waves



Goes best with: This is one style that will work well with a gown as well as a traditional lehenga-choli. Try this if you have really healthy hair. If not, there are good quality wigs and hair accessories that can help you pull off this look.

Don't wear it with: Avoid this hairstyle if your have limp, thin hair because it will not hold up at all. Avoid wearing this with a silk wedding sari — the too-casual style will not gel well.

Deck it up: Use cluster pins with pearls on top, to hold hair. You could do this for both sides

HOW TO GET THIS LOOK: This look needs loose curls. So after cleaning your hair, and conditioning it you need to blow dry it on a cold setting. Use round brushes on sections of your hair as you dry it. Now comb the hair into a side parting (you could also do a middle parting). Divide the hair into small sections and iron it straight. Comb through. Then again make sections and take each section of your hair and curl it using curling irons or rollers. Once the entire head is done, very lightly run your finger through it to let the curls fall into place. Fix with spray. Use pins on the sides to hold the hair in place.


Look 3: The fishtailed fairy



Goes best with: This hairdo looks best with a traditional sari, lehenga or sharara. Even if you need to cover your head for the wedding ceremony this hairstyle will hold.

Don't wear it with: This won't look good for a white wedding. Wedding gowns look best with updos. If you have short hair, or shoulder-length hair, then do not opt for this. Waist length or longer hair will work for this style.

Deck it up: Pin two decorative butterfly hair clips on either side

HOW TO GET THIS LOOK: Comb through clean blow-dried hair. Make a middle parting. Take a small section from both the sides in the front, twist and pin them behind. Now, divide hair into two sections and begin the fishtail braid. Take a few strands from one section to the other and then from another to the previous one, as you keep plaiting. Once the braid is ready, pull at the sides of the braids lightly to loosen it giving the braid a fluffy thick look.